Today I met a man in a black suit and quite frankly, tomorrow I won’t even remember talking to him.
Who is the man in a black suit? He might come from a prestigious college, he might have several degrees, he might have contacts to several different “important people”. To himself he is the most important and intelligent person around. At first he might seem like a person you would like to be in close contact with. He might even seem to be very valuable to you concerning your interests. However there is an other side to men in black suits…
A man in a black suit will go unrecognized at events. He won’t raise any opinions about himself or the work he does. When you talk to a man in a black suit, you actually realize that there is quite little he can help you with. He is overly conservative, as if he was protecting himself from the opinions of others. He attempts to please everybody around him, but by doing so he doesn’t do good to anyone around him. Sadly enough, if he went away, hardly anyone would realize his absence.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying everybody who wears a black suit is a “man in a black suit” or that a person without a black suit wouldn’t be a “man in a black suit”. It goes a lot deeper.
Don’t be a man in a black suit. Don’t try to please everybody around you. Just think about all “the men in black suits” that have gone unnoticed throughout the past. Have a stand and opinion about topics and issues. Be passionate. Disagree with people and challenge the views of others. Sometimes you will make a person around you disagree with you. Sometimes somebody will get angry. But similarly your views will definitely echo with others. People will remember you. People might even admire your courage. You will actually stand out of the crowd. Maybe it is because of something you said or did. Or maybe it is because you have a certain skill or ability.